Did you manage to goof off on set?
Shailene: Theo is very fun, and his jokes are all very crude, which I really respond to.
Theo: I pulled Shailene’s pants down during one of the action sequences.
Theo James & Shailene Woodley for InStyle USA, March 2014
Human beings are funny. They long to be with the person they love but refuse to admit openly. Some are afraid to show even the slightest sign of affection because of fear. Fear that their feelings may not be recognized, or even worst, returned. But one thing about human beings that puzzles me the most is their conscious effort to be connected with the object of their affection even if it kills them slowly inside.
You can’t just make me different and then leave. You can’t. You can’t change me and make my whole life centered around you, then leave.
Respect yourself enough to know when you deserve better.
Someone told me today my ex was bad for me and didn’t deserve me. This person didn’t even know us as a couple very well at all but saw the effects the relationship had on me from knowing me the last few years. This really put things into perspective for me and gave me a lot to think about. Sometimes no matter how strongly and deeply you love someone, it just wasn’t meant to last.
Today’s food for thought.
I’m not strong enough for this
love is putting someone else’s needs before yours.